Hiya!
2 guys whom Miss Juneberry thought were cute back in JC... turned out to be so-so when she saw them these few weeks1 guy whom she thought wasn't at all good looking... turned out looking cute today...
Did they change? Did Miss Juneberry change? Or is it that her surroundings have changed?
So??
Actually.. there's no point to this post... AA304 completely saps creative juices from people...
but anyway.. Miss Juneberry shall squeeze out some "points"
#1: It is not advisable to tie yourself down too early in life...
as you grow older.. you realise what you wanted (or so you thought).. may not be what you ultimately want...
#2: Do not get attached just because the other person looks hot/coolAn unpolished gem today may turn out to be a real diamond a few years down the road. Similarly, the gold you thought you've found may just turn out to be fool's gold.
posted by juneberry @ Thursday, April 21, 2005
38 Comments:
Maybe its the clothes they wear? Or maybe its their hairstyle? I think these few factors will make a whole lot of difference in the impression you get from the person.
Agree with the fact that no need to get attached to good looking guy/girl. Cuz we all know that its the inner beauty more impt (very cliche hor hehehe) and the phrase "beauty lies in the eye of the beholder" is very true leh. Love grows with time, so does beauty in ur eyes.
Set ur eyes on those two guys again, you may discover why you thought they were cute last time again!
your taste may have changed...over the years....perhaps they're still the same ppl but yet after being 'exposed' to more ppl in your life...they no longer meet hte criteria of 'cute' in your dictionary...hehe...
yep...i also agree with wat u said...inner beauty is more important..and that what u thot u wanted may not turn out to be the thing u really want...guess we're still not mature anough to really know what we want in life...at least for me....
Ahahah what both of you said play a part...
#3: Dressing is important.. there are no ugly people.. only lazy people
which is why the "looks" industry i.e make-up artist, hair stylists.. is such a lucrative mkt.
and...
perhaps the standard of shuai ges i see have generally increase... like general price level (inflation) increases... SGP [Shuai Ge Parity / Purchasing Power Parity (PPP)] has decreased.
Therefore the BSGI [Beo-er Shuai Ge Index / Consumer Price Index (CPI)] cut-off to be deemed a shuai ge by me is also raised.
But....
I shall make no pretension... I am a shallow creature.. my top priorities are still:
1) Height
2) Appearance
3) Weight
in order of importance...
In Miss Juneberry's world ... a true and fair representation of your own views should take precedence over politically correct answers
Feel free to speak your mind her.. there're no repercussions
I would give "Appearance" top priority too. Follow by "Personality" and "Compatibility" and all other factors.
"Appearance" is defined as "看得顺眼", not necessary chio or cute, which is really ez to find la. I think the latter two factors are more important and difficult to find.
Ahah, I shall not go on to list my 择偶条件here hehe...
haha i like this post of urs i think it's pretty true cos as u go out n meet more pple, the standards keep changing...and i guess if i were to prioritise i'll also put
1. height
2. appearance,like ur fren said kan de shun yan
3. chemistry aka mo qi
aside: had a fun time ktv-ing away after exam hee hee
darn...
rubbing salt in a festering wound...
aside: my roomie's last paper is my second paper... darn...
Mr L.. you dun need 择偶条件 liao... you've already found the One liao.. hahaha
择偶条件 is for us singles to day-dream about... wahahhahaha
eh... why nobody mention $$... my roomie said its very impt for her.. or rather girls in general...
For the appearance factor.. dun need to be very shuai4... just need to attract my mu4 guang1.. but of course.. the cuter the better la.. i dun mind... =p
I am giving a guy point of view to this matter mah. You can increase your chances if you know how a guy thinks. But then again, know how I think also not very useful, better find out how the guy you like thinks.
One thing for sure, all guys are jerks, so there are certain things we all think alike la....
Anyway I don't agree that girls should look for $ in guys. In fact, most nice girls I know would say they look for "上进心" in guys, which I think is quite fair.
I also agree that chemistry is very important. Cuz nobody whats your priority, and how you filter according to them, in the end, if there's no feeling, also can't be together.
haha!!! "all guys are jerks"
i always tell the guys i know that... including jack... but they always come up with some lame excuses that they dun go for looks... yar right i say..
very rare for a guy to admit that fact to himself.. ahah.. so 1 point to you.
Yup $$ is not a factor.. also cos rich guys squander and go outside pao4 niu1... and even if they are not good-looking.. girls will still throw themselves at them.
上进心 is sexy... can't imagine going out with someone who has no dreams.. no passion... no nothing... i rather go out with a dead fish...
in the end.. i think everything is impt to me.. chemistry too of course... but without the required height etc... if there is only mo4 qi4.. i think would only relegate him to very good platonic friends.. cos there is no "attraction" factor
okay I have the right guy for you who fits the bill (with the required ht. of cuz).
guys out there dun hamtum me, the secret is out...
ahahahah... shuai4 mah??
a point to add.. the required height was 180 previously... but with the formation of the 183 Club... i think 183 is sexay... wahahaha
mr L don't recommend 帅哥 to others. Only recommend those 心地善良guys. whats with the min. 180 requirement? So tall for wot? haha, u aso not very tall mah. Okay he's is past that min. req
haha.. because i feel very big standing beside guys shorter than that...
and i am considered tall for girl's standard okay...
what's more when a pair of a guy and a girl stand together.. even if they are of the same height... the guy will tend to look shorter because of their short legs..
anyway.. thanx for "offering".. i shall not take up the offer..
oh my goodness.. we are talking as if it is serious...
and i think your friend will want
1) Beauty
2) Tall >170
3) Good figure
4) Long flowing lucious hair
5) Sweet demeanor
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n) A good cook...
while i am an antonym for all those
hahah...juneberry...u shld take up Mr L's offer mah...i think his recommendation shldn't be too bad...haha...who knows? the person might end up to be the one for you...hahaha =p
height is definitely the most important for me...*pretty obvious huh?*
i think my criteria would be same as jingsko....coz i think chemistry is one important factor...no matter how good looking the guy is, without chemistry everything is just nothing...
i would include shu1 fu2 gan3 within chemistry...coz if i have to act like someone else whenever i'm with him i'll feel totally like shi*....so i need to feel comfortable with that someone and just be myself...
Mr L: the person u wanna recommend issit ur roomie? haha...or someone else? do we know him?? *kaypo sunshine*
I just verified, my candidates are both shorter than 180cm. But near la, 179cm and 178cm, is that okay?
btw, since you are < 170cm , thats not very tall leh.
1-5 not very important. point n is very impt. That can slowly learn one lah.
Aiyar, Ms S should also consider lo.
btw, i believe in 日久生情, chemistry can nurture one. most impt is must give each other chance okay? give them a chance bah. think about the "what if..." hehehehehe
gawt.. you are serious??!! *incredulous*
you actually.. you actually went to ask for people's height??!!
and there are TWO candidates...
I am impressed.. maybe you really should go set up a Friends of Matchmaker after exams...
ahhahaa... but anyway... currently under my shi2 liu3 qun2 got a lot already.. no room for 2 more... only more trouble for me..
haiz.. zhen1 shi4 kun4 rao3
wahhahahahahahahhahahahaaaa
anyway.. who're the candidates??? just curious??
if he is Takeshi Kaneishiro aka Jin Chen Wu... i dun mind leh.. i really dun mind..
ha ha. very funny.
i m not into matchmaking in general.
no, he is not any superstar. ah, i think i better keep their names to myself cuz they r really nice guys, not troublemakers. =P
haha june ur frens can't wait to "marry u off"...got many ideal candidates for u to consider. maybe like ur fren say ri4 jiu3 sheng1 qing2 wooohhhoooo...think juneberry cannot concentrate on her 304 liao :p
I can't wait to be married!! *gush*
me too!! *gush*
seriously... sunshine, you are no better than a dumb blonde... tsk tsk
to egeus:
oh come on... it's not as if i would go to them and do some butt-kicking stunt.. ahahhaa... but anyway.. juneberry respects your wish
you should consider matchmaking... it's a lucrative job.. so many lonely hearts out there waiting to be "saved" by you
to jingsko:
i can and will concentrate today... ahahhah.. i am better than a dumb blonde...
no la, I just don't want them to be branded as "unwanted-by-juneberry" since u already "rejected" them.
thanks for the advice, i'll stick to an engineering job in the future. lonely hearts can only save themselves if they are willing to make the first move (regardless of guys or girls).
*yawns* how come everyone wakes up so early?
FAINT!!!
someone (read: junberry) just used my name to make a comment!
"sunshine said...
I can't wait to be married!! *gush*"
those ppl who knows me well enuff or who're detailed enuff will realised that its not me....ahahaha....u can't even click on the 'sunshine' name coz the someone can't logged into my account....
and she's so smart to comment on her own comment..."seriously... sunshine, you are no better than a dumb blonde... tsk tsk"
who's the dumb blonde here?
yahyah, one with caps, one without caps. I just noticed. haha. could be anyone la, anyone who wanna create so kinda rumours. let's give someone benefit of doubt. lol.
yahyah, the timestamp about the same one, highly possible same person. the "sunshine" and "dumb blonde" and ms-with-many-suitors. no wonder i said why everyone wakes up so early. ahahahah
helloooo!! Wo3 shi4 gu4 yi4 put liddat de... i want everyone to have the satisfaction to realise it by themselves... only "some" may not be able to realise it..
that's why i purposely put same "pattern", "!!" and "*gush*" in the two post so that the likelihood of being "discovered" is increased..
my miss sw actually took away the fun for my readers... db indeed...
anyway.. on the good side this shows that siwen has revised her 304 well... discovering fraud... on the way to an A i guess..
Mr L.. I dun blame you.. cos you are not trained in discovering fraud...
by the way.. Mr L... your friends are not rejected by me.. cos they never really "liked" me in the first place... so there's no worries.. i just wanna see who you have in mind for me... wahahhahaa
i didn't take the fun away u see...i'm helping the rest of the reader....haha...and to clarify as to retain my reputation...ahahaha
i must say, if you are not taking the whatever 304 thingy, u wldn't pay much attention.
and since the subject is ms sw, its quite obvious that she'll pay attention to it.
so u can't fault the rest for not having good observation.
and besides, i think its perfect alright if ms sw is thinking about getting married... afterall, u girls are not young liao leh. lol
yea.. in victorian times.. we would be labeled "almost spinster" .. ostracised and shunned in the society.. relegated to chaperoning the young simpering little misses on their quests in the marriage mart
but at this time and age..
we are Bachelorette okay...
anyway.. i would rather be a "spinster" then become some simpering girl just so a guy will like and marry me...
i guess i am just not "girlfriend" material... couply stuffs are just skin crawling for me... acks
Don't mind me being straight forward (otherwise mr anon will be back again haha), have not tasted the love or been hurt before?
"Girlfriend" material? lol. more like gotta 随缘bah, when the time is right and the person comes along, you won't think that way lo!
as i said.. i dun like replies that are too politically correct.. i prefer straight-talkin
Ok.. so far haven't met anyone who makes me wanna do couply stuffs..
but I know myself well.. i am definitely not those typical sweet sweet girls.... i am just too nan2 ren2 puo2
couply stuffs... hahaha.
girls are naturally sweet sweet to the guy they wanna do "couply stuffs" with la. haha.
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