Who's your Mr. Right?
Read this while surfing around on the Net..
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Did you know that your preferences for green, purple and orange, the secondary colors, reveal your desires, needs and relationship goals? They show how your personality type attracts and bonds with men -- including Mr. Right!
To learn more about how your favorite color affects your life and what that means for your relationships, try this quick test.
Step 1: Select Your Favorite ColorSimply look at the colors below and pick the one that you prefer to view (not necessarily the color you use in dressing or decorating).
Orange; Purple; GreenStep 2: Get Your ResultsNow that you've chosen the color that you prefer to look at, check out the corresponding description below to find out what this says about your love style -- and the way that you relate to your version of Mr. Right.
If Your Chosen Color Is Green...
When you first meet a man, your practical and nurturing ways encourage him to talk about his life right away. You make Mr. Right feel comfortable. He feels that you fully support him.
It's easy for you to see exactly what's important to a man from the start. Trust your instincts, along with your keen listening skills, because they help you understand what a man wants from a relationship.
Intelligence in the other sex is a real turn-on for you. It entices your curiosity.
In the end, you marry or commit for security. This might mean having a home with children, lots of money or a relationship in which you feel cared for. Your permanent Mr. Right will be a stabilizing personality in your life. "Greens" marry the stable guys!
One word of warning: You are open to the world and appear innocent, and these qualities can make it difficult for you to find your true Mr. Right. Some men misinterpret you altogether and later may be shocked or disappointed when the real you isn't what they expected.
If Your Chosen Color Is Purple...
When you first meet a man, you're attracted to his energy. But in truth, you are probably best matched with a guy who calms you down and makes you comfortable with yourself.
Your sense of drama wins men over, and your enthusiasm can make men feel empowered. They feel their lives are more exciting with you, and that possibilities are infinite.
You're loyal. Relationships are serious business to you.
Your decision to get married, assuming he has passed all the basic criteria, is largely based on physical appearances. "Purples" marry the good-looking guys!
One word of warning: Give a possible Mr. Right a chance. Don't assume things about him. Judge him on his behavior, not how he compares to your ideal.
If Your Chosen Color Is Orange...
Your charismatic, lovable and affectionate nature wins men over. Touching gives you the ability to see the truth in situations and relationships. It's your way of letting others know you're listening and that you care about them.
You are lured into relationships by the way men look. Your decision to get married, however, is based on intellect.
You dedicate yourself to a man who's smart, and usually marry for life. You build relationships with a guy who can teach you things. "Oranges" marry the smart guys!
One word of warning: When first meeting a guy, you hide the sensitive side of yourself. Your clever defenses are all he sees. He may be mistaken about your true personality if you aren't willing to open up over time.
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Not surprisingly, Miss Juneberry's choice is
Purple. No cheating involved here.. many of you have known all along this author simply luurves purple. Please share your choice of colour too!!Aside: Think Gail would have chosen
Orange.
Juneberry the Tease
Ahaha.. for
Once (emphasis), Mist hits the nail on the head..
Miss Juneberry is disappointed in Miss Lin Siwen though.. this author though Miss Lin understands her the most.. hmmnn.. apparently, this is not the case... haiz *shake head*
Yup, Juneberry only teases people whom she cares about!!
She can't be bothered with teasing people she doesn't care about even though teasing comes naturally and effortlessly to her.
To the more observant, you may have noticed that Miss Juneberry only teases those who enjoys her teasing.. well this may come as a shock...
BUT
LIN SIWen and company (aka Mist and other victims)!! the fact that you laugh so hard.. so hard that you may have to go and fit dentures soon (in hokkien: chio4 ga4 gei2 luck4.. those who dun understand.. it literally means laugh until your teeth drop) everytime Miss Juneberry teases you... is testimony to the previous statement.
For those who are not in the know, here's how a typical exchange between Miss Juneberry and her victims goes...
(lifted from Siwen's blog).jpg)
Siwen squeaks: dun really understand why my head seem so big compared to hers! hehehe
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8 Comments:
you know who said...
I absolutely UNDERSTANDS!!!!
5:35 PM -----------------------------
Sunshine said...
oh no...ur temptation is acting up again...where's your angel? napping? hahaha...
10:01 PM ------------------------------
you know who said...
i mean.. who wouldn't??
it's a FACTUAL thing.. you know.. nothing abstract..=p
inner you know who: *cough* *cough* i am trying.. ooohhh.. i really am
12:01 AM ------------------------------
juneberry said...
Yup!! I agree with "you know who"
any HUMAN will understand.. unless you are... ...
Again.. Miss Juneberry trusts that Miss Lin Siwen understands her well enough to guess the unspoken.. ahahahahha
12:11 AM -------------------------------
jack said...
"dun really understand why my head seem so big compared to hers!"
ur head is big because u r more clever. unless it's thin air inside. hehe.. ;P
3:31 AM -------------------------------
you know who said...
no.. it's
rubbish!! (pun intended)
8:11 AM ------------------------------
Sunshine said...
excuse me? i have zhen1 cai2 shi2 liao4 inside my head lor...not thin air nor rubbish...btw, i'm a bit confuse if 'u know who' is the person i think SHE is...
10:48 PM ------------------------------
juneberry said...
SHE is a terror.... just like ME
8:18 AM ------------------------------
To all the victims... you should be honoured that Miss Juneberry bestows her favours on you..
Wahahahahahhahahahaahhaahah!!!!!!!!
If you haven't heard of Canon in D...
Please switch on your speakers now.. and do turn up the volume.
The intro is quite soft.
Enjoy!!
Why me??? (applicable to Miss Lin especially)
Why does Juneberry so enjoy teasing peops like Miss Lin??
Would Miss Lin, or other victims like to answer this question??
Love? Infatuation? Crush?
Hi all,
Thanks for your active participation on this topic. And Miss Juneberry would like to apologise for the delay of this article.
Before Miss Juneberry goes any further, she would like you to test yourself with the following questions to see if you've fallen in romantic love before:
1. You overlook his/her faults or interpret them as "charming"
2. You want to be with him/her every day and night
3. You spend many hours going over just a simple encounter
4. When you feel your love slipping away (or he/she falling for another), you experience heartache
5. When you fall out of love, the stamps on your eyes seem to detach itself by magic
If you've answered yes to most of the questions (which Miss Juneberry thinks is the case)...
CONGRATULATIONS!!.. you've succumbed to the greatest scam in human history.
According to James Park, a noted commentator of human relationships, the true forms of love includes:
1. Sexual attraction
"We respond to other persons sexually when they trigger our imprinted sex-scripts. These sex-scripts are stories, scenarios, and fantasies that were imprinted into our minds at an early age. We did not choose the nature of our sexual responses. "
2. Mate selection (marriage)
" If we have been looking for a man or woman with whom to spend our lives, we have imagined an ideal Mr. Right or Ms. Right. If someone corresponds with this internal Dream Lover, we might easily 'fall in love' with him or her. And we might be sexually attracted to him or her. But the marriage decision itself is more rational and organized than either romantic love or sexual response.
We can easily 'fall in love' and 'get turned on' by men or women whom we would never consider marrying. Looking for a life-partner involves compatibilities of personalities and purposes, which do not always correspond with our romantic and sexual responses. Marriage is a more practical affair. We need to know whether the potential spouse has any bad habits that would make it difficult to live with him or her."
3. Familiarity (family)
"Good marriages and good long-lasting relationships can have a sense of a loving togetherness not based on the fantasy of romantic love, not based on the imprinted sex-scripts they had before they met, not based on their pre-existing ideas of who would be a good spouse. Being comfortable together is based in reality. From their past experience of being with each other, the partners know they like each other.
The fantasy of romance may be gone. The triggering of their sex-scripts may have been replaced by a special kind of sexuality that they could not have predicted before it actually happened between them. And whatever prior expectations they had for a marriage partner has been replaced by real information about this particular person.
One important part of familiarity is raising children together. Two people who have shared the trials and rewards of parenthood may develop feelings for each other that will never be repeated in any other relationship of their lives."
But what about Romance???
Romantic love
According to the same author,
"Romantic love is the most recent addition to these other feelings with which it is often confused. Romantic fantasies were invented about 800 years ago in Medieval Europe. Since then these delusions have spread over the whole world. Almost everywhere, people 'fall in love'. And they regard it as a natural response, perhaps in part because they confuse it with (1) sex, (2) mate-selection, and (3) familiarity."
He concluded that
"Romantic love can be an enjoyable and harmless emotional game —as long as we do not attempt to construct our lives around it. When we look deeply into the causes of romantic love, we see that it is a complex, conventional set of feelings implanted in us by popular culture. This emotional response is private and self-contained, sometimes stimulated by another person or an image of our Dream Lover.
But instead of 'falling in love', we can create unique, singular relationships—reality-based interactions, free, loving commitments, based on knowledge, respect, and mutuality."
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If you are interested to find out more about the author and his works,
James Park is an existential philosopher and author of New Ways of Loving: How Authenticity Transforms Relationships, the first chapter of which is called "Romantic Love is a Hoax! Emotional Programming to 'Fall in Love' "
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Miss Juneberry's take?
Yup, she does agree with the above author's view except that 1) sexual attraction should not be included as a form of love.
More specifically, she feels that no "true" love, like those found in Mdm Qiong's wonderful stories, exists.. what is real is the familial love and the commitment to one's spouse.
For Miss Juneberry,
Love is a commitment.. NOT a "feeling" nor "butterflies in the stomach".
Love is staying with your other half even when the initial feeling of infatuation fades away.
Love is the willingness to take care of your loved ones..
even when they are not able to take care of themselves...
even when it drains you physically, mentally and emotionally
Love is when you are willing to put in the effort together for a better tomorrow
Love is giving without expectating a return
Once again, Miss Juneberry would like to thank everyone for sharing their perception of love... and she wishes everybody the best of luck in your quest for someone for whom you are willing to commit... ...
在爱与不爱
等待与放弃的煎熬里
在心与心碰撞后
开始保护自己
在放与不放
沉淀与寂寞日子里
突然我会怀疑
太执着的爱你
是出自爱情
还是因为不甘心
时间的雨下了多少季
我还等着雨天过去
有点担心 已经不适应天晴
那些日子你会不会舍不得？
思念就像关不紧的门 空气里有幸福的灰尘
否则为何闭上眼睛的时候 又全都想起了
谁都别说 让我一个人躲一躲
你的承诺 我竟然没怀疑过
反反复复...要不是当初深深深爱过
我试着恨你却 想起你的笑容
原谅把你带走的雨天， 在渐渐模糊的窗前， 每个人最后都要说再见
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